Baby Loss Awareness Week

On the 15th of October, the Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Charity (SANDs) brought together families from across Hampshire

The event at The Oaks Havant Crematorium was to remember babies who were taken to soon.

The flower courtyard was lit up with pink and blue solar lights whilst the SANDs choir sang in memory of special their babies.

Everyone who attended was given a tea light lantern and these were placed around the water feature throughout the evening. The Bereavement Care team, a free support service provided by Southern Co-op, gave out teddies for younger children and memory pins for anyone else who wanted one.

At 7pm everyone stood in silence whilst the names were read out and we took a minute to remember and reflect.

Families were able to feel comforted and supported by others who have experienced a similar situation.

Emma Connors, Head of Crematoria and Burial Grounds, said: “The service was beautiful, in the most tranquil setting. Thank you to Lee Callaway and Paula Slape from The Oaks for supporting the event, providing refreshments and making sure the team from SANDs had everything they needed on the night.

“We are extremally proud to have been able to support them in such a special memorable service.”

The Stillbirth and Neonatal Death Charity is a national charity in the United Kingdom that provides support to anyone affected by the death of a baby.

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  • Truly beautiful and peaceful. Wish I lived closer as I would choose this location for my own cremation, the focus on environment and wildlife is wonderful. During our service the peacock was walking in the garden, and then joined by a pheasant and magpie, a welcome and unexpected distraction and a reminder to that nature carries on regardless. Thank you…

    Lisette

  • A truly wonderful place to say your goodbyes calming and comforting with a beautiful backdrop as the service progress. A really nice garden of remembrance and truly respectful staff. Thank you for such professionalism.

    Pete

  • Absolutely beautifully kept grounds and a fitting service for a send-off for a much loved relative. We all felt welcomed and valued by your very professional staff and would like to thank you greatly for providing such a peaceful oasis for reflection.

    Gene

  • Absolutely beautiful there was a Kestrel perched on the post throughout my best friend's ceremony truly special god bless the open glass view of the gardens its tranquillity and combines a natural aspect.

    Spencer

  • My family held my Gran's Funeral Service here. It was handled professionally excellently & is such a lovely, peaceful natural, place. I would highly recommend them.

    Mandy

  • The team that supported us were superb; everything was orchestrated beautifully and with the greatest respect for mum. We very much felt the peace and calm within the Service hall and outside in the remembrance gardens. Our thanks to all

    Michelle

  • A beautiful, peaceful place for a funeral. The view is amazing, with trees and birds/wildlife to be seen while sitting for the service. A great, modern building. So much nicer than anywhere I have been before.

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